Blending Lives (and Maybe Families): Practical Considerations for Serious Relationships.
Bref descriptif
Dump Now or Wait? The Eternal Breakup Dilemma
Dating a Divorced Dad
Torn Between Two Lovers
The Truth About Online Dating Deception
Online Dating Texting
Turn the Hose on an Old Flame
Dating My Sister’s Ex: Is It Weird or Fair Game?
Flirty Friends or Something More?
My Boyfriend Too Focused on My Looks
If she legit would’ve kissed you when you met her, then you know you’re fucking up somewhere between that moment where she was attracted enough to you, and texting. This is just simple logic. Between the attraction stage and meeting up, in order, are 1) what you do during that moment, 2) how you say goodbye, and 3) how you re-contact her to establish your Day 2.
So, logically, the ways you can fuck up those 3 main points are:
1) During that moment: not building enough comfort/rapport/connection/time-bridging/DHV’ing that she wants to see you again (time-bridge gives you guys a reason to have eachother’s number and makes it harder for her to bail, forcing her giving you her # is a great party trick but without comfort/rapport it’s not solid, not seeming any higher value or emotionally relevant than any of the other dozen guys htting on her later in the night, etc.)
2) Saying your goodbyes: accidentally sabotaging your pickup when you say goodbyes (bailing as soon as you get her # instead of building more comfort, her seeing you hitting on other girls, coming off too needy/clingy when you say goodbye, leaving her in the hands of a player who fucks her, getting her number too early in the night for her to remember you after a dozen other guys get hre number, etc.)
3) Re-contacting and establishing a Day 2: your text/phone game being weak and turning her off or at least not re-seducing her (boring/shitty re-initializing text, weak voice on the phone, failing shit-tests, not flirting/teasing enough to get her into state where she’ll be receptive, giving up too easily, etc.)
So which of these do you think it is if you think back to your interactions? Maybe it’s more than one of them. Work on these over the next few months and when you learn to handle them proper, you’ll see more success.
Try not allowing yourself to ask for phone numbers for the next 6 months, and instead work on your comfort/rapport (check out Magic Bullets comfort section, Juggler method, Mystery Method’s comfort stuff (pretty much the same as Magic Bullets)) and work on it until you get to the point where SHE is demanding you take her number or she’s demanding YOUR number. Either outcome is acceptable. She still might flake because for all you know she gets home and her parents are dead, you can’t control that lol but when you get to the point where girls insist that you contact them, you’re going to have way less flakes.
Dating a Divorced Dad
Torn Between Two Lovers
The Truth About Online Dating Deception
Online Dating Texting
Turn the Hose on an Old Flame
Dating My Sister’s Ex: Is It Weird or Fair Game?
Flirty Friends or Something More?
My Boyfriend Too Focused on My Looks
If she legit would’ve kissed you when you met her, then you know you’re fucking up somewhere between that moment where she was attracted enough to you, and texting. This is just simple logic. Between the attraction stage and meeting up, in order, are 1) what you do during that moment, 2) how you say goodbye, and 3) how you re-contact her to establish your Day 2.
So, logically, the ways you can fuck up those 3 main points are:
1) During that moment: not building enough comfort/rapport/connection/time-bridging/DHV’ing that she wants to see you again (time-bridge gives you guys a reason to have eachother’s number and makes it harder for her to bail, forcing her giving you her # is a great party trick but without comfort/rapport it’s not solid, not seeming any higher value or emotionally relevant than any of the other dozen guys htting on her later in the night, etc.)
2) Saying your goodbyes: accidentally sabotaging your pickup when you say goodbyes (bailing as soon as you get her # instead of building more comfort, her seeing you hitting on other girls, coming off too needy/clingy when you say goodbye, leaving her in the hands of a player who fucks her, getting her number too early in the night for her to remember you after a dozen other guys get hre number, etc.)
3) Re-contacting and establishing a Day 2: your text/phone game being weak and turning her off or at least not re-seducing her (boring/shitty re-initializing text, weak voice on the phone, failing shit-tests, not flirting/teasing enough to get her into state where she’ll be receptive, giving up too easily, etc.)
So which of these do you think it is if you think back to your interactions? Maybe it’s more than one of them. Work on these over the next few months and when you learn to handle them proper, you’ll see more success.
Try not allowing yourself to ask for phone numbers for the next 6 months, and instead work on your comfort/rapport (check out Magic Bullets comfort section, Juggler method, Mystery Method’s comfort stuff (pretty much the same as Magic Bullets)) and work on it until you get to the point where SHE is demanding you take her number or she’s demanding YOUR number. Either outcome is acceptable. She still might flake because for all you know she gets home and her parents are dead, you can’t control that lol but when you get to the point where girls insist that you contact them, you’re going to have way less flakes.
Date de début de l'évènement
22.04.2022
Date de fin de l'évènement
30.04.2022
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