My Current Biggest Sticking Point: Who’s Chasing Who?
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I’ve been meaning to write the post for awhile now…
A couple of weeks ago, after my first date with Accounting Chick, I couldn’t help but think the date was a huge failure. I went for the kiss at the end, didn’t get it AND got called aggressive. No notch… all botch.
I was thinking about what I could of/should of done differently…
The main problem with going for the kiss and getting called aggressive, is I think that it makes me look almost desperate. I’m the one chasing….
The thought takes me back to BiGrl saying “Why do you want to do that with me? Don’t you have enough girls giving you that already?” Or Crush asking, “Why do you want to so bad? Has it been awhile?”
I thought about my notches last year vs. my non-notches last year… and the biggest difference came down to who was doing the chasing.
February Fling – Well I won’t really say she came off as chasing, but I didn’t either. And, she was definitely into me and on the first date, while out drinking, she basically hinted that I would have to do to fuck her was get her a little tipsy. Then she came back to my place for a glass of wine… so yeah, that was easy… and I definitely wasn’t chasing…
Crush – I was chasing hard. Physically obviously trying to fuck her after EVERY date when went on and never pulled back, except once. The one date I didn’t try to fuck her on – the lunch date – was actually the time I got the closest to fucking her. Go figure.
CuteNewChick – Again, I came off as chasing. We were in my bedroom and she had buyer’s remorse for even being there, and I just kept pushing – putting my hand up her shirt, playing with her breasts, pulling her to the bed with me – and that’s when she got weird. I was “too aggressive” and “too fast”
The Chick That Left Me At The Gas Station – Deadspin Drunken Hookup Failure by the way. But, yeah… I was probably chasing by just rolling with her and getting in her car and shit, she seemed into it though, but I never really successfully framed her as chasing. Then again, this was more on her bitch friend than her anyway, but she left too, so fuck her and her couch…
PromQueen – I’ve been chasing her since high school. Never framed that any other way…
The Crazy Chick – She was mad horny. And definitely the one chasing, but not because I framed her that way. She was just a 30 year old who wanted some 24 year old dick. She chased so hard, it turned me off, and lead to me not hitting her up anymore after I fucked twice.
Butterface – I was the one chasing. Especially the night I met her, trying to get her to come over that night…
Genie - similar to Butterface. Chased the night I met her, trying to get her to come back… then, chased again on the first date when I did get her over – and kept trying to escalate at my apartment.
Text Message Tease – Chased through text messages that night and the next day. Should’ve just called and set something up.
Fuck Buddy – I was the one trying to set up the fuck buddy arrangement, and the one always texting trying to set up plans, which she always had excuses for.
Army Brat – My 2nd date with her was almost identical to my 2nd date with Crush. Watched TV/movie, laid together. At the end of TV show/movie, I get on top her, make-out, try to spread her legs, and get shut down. All me escalating, all me chasing.
Cowgirl – I successfully framed her as chasing when we were sitting in the restaurant at 3am, and she touched my thigh and I slapped her hand away and said,“Who said you could rub on my leg? What are you trying to do, seduce me? I’m not that easy.” Game was solid, notch that night.
Barcelona – When she fell on the dance floor and I didn’t pick her up, just laughed and walked off, and she chased after me. Then, I tried to kiss her and she didn’t let me, so I denied it and then when she tried to kiss me I didn’t let her… re-framed her as chasing, and next thing you know she was lifting my shirt up and licking on my stomach in the middle of the club – and licking on plenty more a couple hours later…
And, there’s probably plenty of more failures in there, but you get the point. I need to do a better job at framing the girl as the one who’s doing the chasing and then escalating up to the bang becomes a lot easier. Any ideas for how I could’ve done that in any of the above scenarios are welcome in the comments…
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I’ve been meaning to write the post for awhile now…
A couple of weeks ago, after my first date with Accounting Chick, I couldn’t help but think the date was a huge failure. I went for the kiss at the end, didn’t get it AND got called aggressive. No notch… all botch.
I was thinking about what I could of/should of done differently…
The main problem with going for the kiss and getting called aggressive, is I think that it makes me look almost desperate. I’m the one chasing….
The thought takes me back to BiGrl saying “Why do you want to do that with me? Don’t you have enough girls giving you that already?” Or Crush asking, “Why do you want to so bad? Has it been awhile?”
I thought about my notches last year vs. my non-notches last year… and the biggest difference came down to who was doing the chasing.
February Fling – Well I won’t really say she came off as chasing, but I didn’t either. And, she was definitely into me and on the first date, while out drinking, she basically hinted that I would have to do to fuck her was get her a little tipsy. Then she came back to my place for a glass of wine… so yeah, that was easy… and I definitely wasn’t chasing…
Crush – I was chasing hard. Physically obviously trying to fuck her after EVERY date when went on and never pulled back, except once. The one date I didn’t try to fuck her on – the lunch date – was actually the time I got the closest to fucking her. Go figure.
CuteNewChick – Again, I came off as chasing. We were in my bedroom and she had buyer’s remorse for even being there, and I just kept pushing – putting my hand up her shirt, playing with her breasts, pulling her to the bed with me – and that’s when she got weird. I was “too aggressive” and “too fast”
The Chick That Left Me At The Gas Station – Deadspin Drunken Hookup Failure by the way. But, yeah… I was probably chasing by just rolling with her and getting in her car and shit, she seemed into it though, but I never really successfully framed her as chasing. Then again, this was more on her bitch friend than her anyway, but she left too, so fuck her and her couch…
PromQueen – I’ve been chasing her since high school. Never framed that any other way…
The Crazy Chick – She was mad horny. And definitely the one chasing, but not because I framed her that way. She was just a 30 year old who wanted some 24 year old dick. She chased so hard, it turned me off, and lead to me not hitting her up anymore after I fucked twice.
Butterface – I was the one chasing. Especially the night I met her, trying to get her to come over that night…
Genie - similar to Butterface. Chased the night I met her, trying to get her to come back… then, chased again on the first date when I did get her over – and kept trying to escalate at my apartment.
Text Message Tease – Chased through text messages that night and the next day. Should’ve just called and set something up.
Fuck Buddy – I was the one trying to set up the fuck buddy arrangement, and the one always texting trying to set up plans, which she always had excuses for.
Army Brat – My 2nd date with her was almost identical to my 2nd date with Crush. Watched TV/movie, laid together. At the end of TV show/movie, I get on top her, make-out, try to spread her legs, and get shut down. All me escalating, all me chasing.
Cowgirl – I successfully framed her as chasing when we were sitting in the restaurant at 3am, and she touched my thigh and I slapped her hand away and said,“Who said you could rub on my leg? What are you trying to do, seduce me? I’m not that easy.” Game was solid, notch that night.
Barcelona – When she fell on the dance floor and I didn’t pick her up, just laughed and walked off, and she chased after me. Then, I tried to kiss her and she didn’t let me, so I denied it and then when she tried to kiss me I didn’t let her… re-framed her as chasing, and next thing you know she was lifting my shirt up and licking on my stomach in the middle of the club – and licking on plenty more a couple hours later…
And, there’s probably plenty of more failures in there, but you get the point. I need to do a better job at framing the girl as the one who’s doing the chasing and then escalating up to the bang becomes a lot easier. Any ideas for how I could’ve done that in any of the above scenarios are welcome in the comments…
Date de début de l'évènement
25.03.2022
Date de fin de l'évènement
27.03.2022
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