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I’m gonna guess you haven’t been reading this blog, or you would realize that most of your above comment is not relevant to me. A. I’ve already stated I don’t think men and women are equals. We are too different. Rather I think feminism is women wanting to be seen as having equity. B. I have written a post and had a guest post about how I think women should ask out guys. So I am not shying away from all responsibility that comes with being a modern women. C. I think you missed the point of the post. It was not to say why guys HAD to pay. it was to explain to guys why girls want you to pay. You don’t have to agree with it, but it doesn’t make it any less true. D. You are assuming that women are only one thing. eg. if we are strong, we can’t ask to be cared for or vice versa. We just aren’t that simple. (Nor are men, for that matter).

In any case, I appreciate your comment and it is always nice to hear the other side of the debate.
-Cali

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Vinny
February 13, 2013 at 12:37 am #
Well put, ol boy! But honestly, I think picking up a check on a first date or what have you, is really about the social graces we as a modern society believe to be civil and appropriate behavior between the sexes. Pay or not, the ladies love it when a gentleman acts gentlemenly. Will this get him a crack in the sack, I’m uncertain. I have a feeling that a man’s character has more to do with his chances of success or not.

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Gorbachev
March 21, 2011 at 5:47 pm #
On the other hand, when a woman makes an admission that perhaps modern social expectations – actual equality and purely equal consideration – are maybe unnatural and the old system was, in many ways, better for some women, and THEN refuses to pay for her meals and entertainment – fine. But she’s usually brought something else to the table to make the exchange (because this is exactly what it is) amenable – an attitude, an outlook, some loyalty, discretion, modesty.
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